If spirituality or divinity has to happen, the first thing is, we must get our humanity to its peak. Why has every religion, every spiritual process always been talking about love for compassion ? It is not because love and compassion are the ultimate aspects of life. It is because it is good manure. If you constantly feed yourself on love and compassion, flowers will bloom in you very easily. If this manure is not giving on a daily basis, then maybe your seed is good but still it may not bloom because the necessary nourishment is not there.
We have always understand that turning spiritual means to leave home and to go into the forest, not involved with the process of life around you. It is because of these kinds of wrong notions that so many young people and so many intelligent people refuse to look towards spirituality.
It needs to be understood that being spiritual is the most intelligent way to exist on this planet. Only when your intelligence rises beyond the mediocre, you turn truly spiritual. Spirituality is not for a fool, it is only for a person who is really capable of looking at his life with more intelligence than the common people. It is because spiritual people exhibited much more intelligence than the common people, that they they were always sought after in any part of the world.